Posted by DARLENE on March 04, 1999 at 23:53:35:
In Reply to: I seem to last longer during sex when..... posted by just wondering why. on March 03, 1999 at 15:04:51:
Just out of curiosity, would you be interested in some advice about "infidelity" instead of advice on "lasting longer"??? It looks like that is what you need here. Please tell me that you ARE using protection with your wife, because as the saying goes "whomever you sleep with, your wife sleeps with" and the cycle goes on and on.
I'm not trying to throw stones, but you did mention the fact that you were married and you didn't have to. Maybe that is your plead for some help!!!!
Believe me, if I didn't know you were married, my advice would of been a little different.
Sorry if my posting wasn't positive, but just had to pass on a few words.
Hopefully you will re-think this "affair" that you are having....
: ...it's with someone other than my spouse.
: Why? Now please don't shoot me for having affairs.
: But I really want to know why I can hold out during sex when it's with
: the other person? Sex with my wife is over in a flash, to the point where she's
: getting pissed cuz she never even gets "worked up" or is able to get into it.
: How can I adjust this problem?
: I mean I can last to well over an hour with the other women but lucky to
: last 15 minutes with my wife.
: What gives?