Posted by Confused Woman on April 23, 1999 at 13:04:04:
In Reply to: Go for it then posted by Jake on April 23, 1999 at 12:52:21:
: Also remember that the annoying habits that drove you apart in the
: first place will still be there.
YUP, I KNOW THOSE HABITS ARE STILL THERE. BUT I'M SO EXTREMELY CRITICAL OF OTHERS -- WAY TOO CRITICAL. I GOT THAT FROM BEING AROUND MY MOTHER FOR SO LONG. SHE IS VERY NEGATIVE. NEVER A KIND WORD COMES OUT OF HER MOUTH. EVEN GOING OUT TO DINNER I AM EMBARRASSED TO DEATH BECAUSE SHE COMMENTS OUT LOUD ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE. I FEEL LIKE HAVING BUSINESS CARDS MADE UP WITH AN APOLOGY ON THEM, TO SAY I'M SORRY FOR HER BEHAVIOR. ANYWAY...THIS IS A PROBLEM WITHIN MYSELF AND I THOUGHT I COULD TRY TO STEP BACK AND TELL MYSELF NOT TO BE SO CRITICAL. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH NEGATIVITY AND IT BREEDS NEGATIVITY...