How do you know when you're ready to find new romance? We think you just will. But you have to be ready.
It's funny how people not in the dating market manage to project "stay away from me" vibes and keep love interests at bay. It's certainly not easy to find a new significant other, but you might find, once you're emotionally ready, that the candidates available for coffee, dinner, or a film are there.
Most people just coming out of divorce are struggling with personal redefinition. It is a vulnerable time. It is not the time to make another commitment. Before you reach out to commit to another relationship, live alone, inside your own skin. Gain a sense of comfort with the solitary player you are now.