Based on a Series of Interviews
with Divorce Expert and Clinical Psychologist Mitchell A. Baris, PhD

How do I know when to throw in the towel --when my marriage absolutely cannot be saved? My marriage seemes beyond repair. Is there anything I can do to put it back together? How can I find an appropriate marriage counselor? When is the need for divorce urgent? Once the decision to divorce has been made, what are the emotional issues I will face? I've initiated the divorce, and I want to move forward. But my partner is in terrible agony, and cannot seem to accept the decision. How can I help my spouse move on with the next stage of his or her life? It's been quite a few months, and I still can't shake my depression, anger and grief. What should I do? How can I regain control of my emotions in the aftermath of my divorce? I was extremely attached to my spouse's family and I want to continue the relationship with them. What should I do? As a couple, we had a wonderful group of friends. Will both my spouse and I be able to maintain these friendships after the divorce? My friends are all married. Now that I'm divorced will they have any interest in me? How can I best deal with the intimidating prospect of living alone? My divorce has destroyed my self-esteem. What can I do to feel good about myself again? When can I expect to get some closure in this ordeal? Even though my divorce has been finalized and the papers signed, I cannot get closure. My ex- and I continue to have contact, and the conflict goes on and on. How can I deal with this? How can my work life help see me through the vicissitudes of my divorce? In the face of my divorce, I feel tremendous need for change. Is this the time to go out and get a new job? When will I be ready to take the plunge again? What is the best way to meet new dating partners? How can I avoid making the same mistake twice? My ex has found a new, serious dating partner. I find it difficult to deal with. What should I do? My spouse remarried immediately after the divorce. How can I deal with my ex's new spouse?